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Sheila Bender


After earning an MAT in education at Keane College and an MA in Creative Writing from the University of Washington, Sheila Bender has taught writing at colleges, universities, public school classrooms, writer's workshops, teacher training events, and private seminars across the country. She is a poet whose work appears in US and Canadian literary magazines and in several anthologies. She has written nine books on writing and is at work on her tenth. She has also published collections of poetry and a memoir. 

Some of her titles include:
A New Theology: Turning to Poetry in a Time of Grief, Imago Press, 2009
Writing and Publishing Personal Essays, Silver Threads Press, 2005
A Year in the Life: Journaling for Self-Discovery, now available in electronic form at the IAJW
Writing in a Convertible with the Top Down, co-authored with Christi Killien, new edition soon available on Libratary.com
Perfect Phrases for College Application Essays, McGraw-Hill 2008
Creative Writing Demystified, forthcoming from McGraw-Hill

In addition to writing poetry, essays, and instructional books, Sheila Bender has been a contributor to Writer's Digest magazine and The Writer. Her work has appeared in the Associated Writing Program's Writer's Chronicle. Sheila has been publishing Writing It Real with her partner Kurt VanderSluis since 2002. 
 
Sheila Bender's students have enjoyed the success of publishing their poetry and essays and they continue to expand their credits and expertise.

Sheila has helped teachers revolutionize their approach to teaching the writing process. She directs the Writing It Real Writer's Conference in Port Townsend, WA each year and brings that conference to a second city each year as well.



Articles by Sheila Bender:


Secrets to the Success of Motivational Speakers Might Help Us Succeed as Writers

"In The Fragments" by Sindee Ernst

"Walking to School" by Nancy Kane

'Tis the Season for Lists

2007 Bedell Nonfiction Now

21 Free Gifts from the Virtual World

25 More Tips for Writers

25 More Tips for Writers

25 More Tips for Writers

Deep Light, New and Selected Poems 1987 - 2007 by Rebecca McClanahan

Glimmer Train Comes Through

Good Neighbors Bad Times by Mimi Schwartz

In Our Hands by Arnold Arem, M.D.

In Pieces: An Anthology of Fragmentary Writing

In Short -- An inspiring essay anthology edited by Judith Kitchen and Mary Paumier Jones

Love Letters from a Fat Man by Naomi Benaron

Miss Alcott's Email: Yours for Reforms of All Kinds by Kit Bakke

On Australian Soil: Teaching Those I Was Taught to Hate by Sondra Perl

The Cartographer's Tongue: Poems of the World by Susan Rich

The Freelance Writer's Bible by David Trottier

A Condition of the Spirit: The Life and Work of Larry Levis

A Conversation with David Horowitz, Poet and Publisher

A Conversation with writer Barbara Sjoholm

A Different Christmas

A Dime in My Pocket: A Memoir

A Fortunate Meeting with Helen Mitchell and her book, Helen’s Garden

A Found Exercise

A Look at Four Writers Who Inhabit the Moment

A Need to Write

A Note to Students of Writing

A Personal Essay and a Contest It Inspires

A Personal Essay Waiting to Be Written

A Prompt for Finding Essay Topic Ideas

A Read Through Judith Kitchen's Work

A Review of Tell It Slant

A Special Birthday

A Story of Two Fathers and the Daughter Who Loves Food Too Much

A Strategy for Creating Insight in a Personal Essay

A Writing Buffet

A Writing Lesson from Morrie, Rilke, and Coleman Barks

A Writing Lesson from the Journaling Ideas of Author David Mas Masumoto

About the Three-Step Response

Accepting the Personal in the Personal Essay

Advice from the Book Doctor

All Done Not Writing

An Email Chat with Sebastian Matthews, Founding Editor of Rivendell

An email exchange with Amy Holman, Director of Poets & Writers' Publishing Workshops

An Email Interview with Sue William Silverman

An Exercise for Finding Starts in Personal Essay Writing

An Idea to Launch Essays

An Inland Navy

An Interview with Author and Law Professor Martha Grace Duncan

An Interview with Book Lust author Nancy Pearl (the Most Avid Reader Anyone Knows)

An Interview with Humorist Judy Gruen

An Interview with Jack Heffron

An Interview with John Nemerovski

An Interview with Kate Kelsall

An Interview with Linda C. Wisniewski

An Interview with Nahid Rachlin

An Interview with Nahid Rachlin, Part Two

An Interview with Sondra Perl Followed by an Exercise for Memoir Writing

An Interview with Writer's Boot Camp Program Director, Robert Morgan Fisher

An Interview with Young Adult Novelist Hannah R. Goodman

As the Dark Days Move into Light

Ashes

Australian Poet Doris Leadbetter tells us about Mrs. Arthur P. Craven

Becoming a Haiku Poet

Becoming a Woman of Color

Before and After: Shaping an Essay About Loss

Behind the Scenes

Betty Shafer's Essay About Her Son John

Birthday Memories Offer Kernels For More Writing

Build Your Writing Life

Carrying Back to Carry Forward

Carrying the Raindrops

Celebrating Lyric Poetry

Cider Mills and Burning Leaves

Coaxing Imaginative Awareness

Collect Tidbits, Meditations and Musings

Community and the Work of the Poet

Conversation on Creating and Supporting an Anthology of Essays by Many Contributors

Correspondence with Fiction Writer Janice Eidus

Creating A Lyric Essay Using the Interview Approach

Creating Psychological Time in Narratives

Creating Rich Scenes Like the Pros

Dealing with Toxic Feedback

Defining and Writing the Lyric Essay

Delivering Your Personal Essays to Market, Part 1

Delivering Your Personal Essays to Market, Part 2

Describing How We Behave When Life Deals a Blow

Digesting World News August, 2006

Do Not Betray Yourself or Your Community

Email Conversation with Poet and Non Fiction Author Tim McNulty

Embarkation: A Poem by Meg Files

Embedded in The Dogs of Babel

Enliven Your Fiction or Memoir by Weaving Complications into Your Story

Excerpt from Writing and Publishing Personal Essays by Sheila Bender

Explosions and Recapitulations

Fearless Confessions: A Writer's Guide to Memoir

Fiction Inspiration from A Christmas Carol by Charles Dickens

Finding a Voice for This

Finding a Voice for This

Finding One's Way Through Writing

Finding the Sacred Through Careful Attention

Finding Your Writing's Occasion

First

First Words

First You Have to Teach a Lesson

Floating Bridge Press: Poetry From the Upper Left Hand Corner

For YOUR Eyes Only

Four Writers on Writing, Part 2

Four Writers on Writing, Publishing and How Their Careers Are Shaping Up

Get Your Writing Going this National Poetry Month

Getting to First-Person Writing

Getting to the Details

Grace Jackson Creates a Community of Voices

Grooming

He Was Surprised And So Was I by Meg Hannah House

Heat - Riley Ellen Martin's Third Place Winning Essay

Hiring the Journal Keeper Within

How to Overcome Writing Procrastination

Hula Girl

I Do, Undone -- Catha J. Loomis' 1st Place Essay

In the Presence of Wonder

Incognito Street: How Travel Made Me A Writer by Barbara Sjoholm

Indexing: Who Does It and How?

Inside the Writing of A New Theology: Turning to Poetry In A Time of Grief

Insight at the Intersection of Past and Present

Insights into Endings

Insights into Endings - Part 2

Instant Literary Pleasure

Instructional Exercise based on Ray Bradbury's Dandelion Wine

Interview with Author and Editor Allison Gilbert

Interview with Harmoni McGlothlin

Interview with Joan Weimer

Interview with Joni Cole, an editor of the This Day: Diaries from American Women Project

Interview with Laura Fitzgerald

Interview with Libertary.com

Interview with Margaret D. McGee

Interview with Memoirist Melissa Hart

Interview with Rodney L. Merrill

Interview with the Author of What I Thought I Knew

Interview with Writer Katrina Hays

Janice Eidus Correspondence, Part Two

Jerome Gold of Black Heron Press on Independent Publishing

Journaling Exercise to Get You Writing

Journaling to Wake Up Your Dream Machine

Judging the Personal Essay

Julie Barker's First Place Essay "Overturned"

Just My Two Cents Worth

Keeping a Family Journal

Keeping a Writer's Journal

Keeping a Writer's Journal

Lasting: Poems on Aging, Edited by Meg Files

Learning the Art of Public Speaking Can Help Writers

Learning Words by Heart

Let Your Writer Self Be With You

Letter to a Young Perfectionist

Listening for A Poem's Discovery

LiveJournal Blogging

Magical Realism at Your Finger Tips

Make the Stretch to Get Your Foot in the Door

Making Historic Time Real

Making Metaphor Run Deep

Making Poetry From the Prose of Our Daily Lives

Medicare Essay

Memoirist Joelle Fraser Talks About Her Process

Migael Scherer's Writing Made a Difference to Journalists

More Must Reads for Inspiration

More on Awakening the Travel Journal Keeper Within

More Than Your English Teacher Ever Told You

More Than Your English Teacher Ever Told You - Part II

Must Reads for Essay Writers

National Poetry Month is Coming

Near the Light

Niche Dating Essay Yields Results

On Cures Include Travel, Poems by Susan Rich

On Self-publishing

On Writing Early Readers

One Author's Road to Creating Intimate Non-Fiction

Ordinary Genius

Overcoming Writing Inertia

Pep Talk and Tips on Submitting Screenplays

Perfect Phrases for Writing About a Significant Experience

Poetry is a Chance to Live Without Looking Away

Porch Swings

Prompts Inspired By In Brief: Short Takes on the Personal, edited by Kitchen & Jones

Prompts to Make Shapely, Focused Stories (and Essays)

Publishing Your Poetry and Your Essays

Pursuing the Dream of Publishing Personal Essays

Put Summer on the Page

Put Your Ear To Work In Writing Your Essays

Putting Life Experience on the Page

Q & A withMemoirist Mimi Schwartz

Q&A with Editorial Assistant Meg Leder

Real Response

Recognizing Fragmentary Writing as a Genre

Relying on the Lyric

Remembering Your Birthdays

Reporting the Earthquakes in Life

Research and Creative Writing

Resources for Poetry - A Feast for the Soul

Resources for Writers of Personal Experience

Review of Make a Real Living as a Freelance Writer by Jenna Glatzer

Role Playing with Sand Spirits

Sailing the High Seas of the Publishing World

Sandi C. Shore’s Secrets to Standup Success

Self-Publishing Books on Grief, Part One

Self-Publishing Books on Grief, Part Two

Small Things Hold Great Meaning

Sometimes Writing is a Matter of Memory and Resolve

Sow More Seeds for Personal Essay Writing

Sparking Young (and Older) Writers' Minds Using Bantu

Starting with Pieces Yields a Whole

Study a Scene from David Beckman's Novel-in-Progress

Subscriber Response to Instructional Exercises

Sudden Writing

Suzan Huney's Choice Bits

Take Some Time for Playful Journaling

Take Some Time for Playful Journaling, Part II

Teachings from Felt Sense: Writing with the Body by Sondra Perl

Ted Kooser's The Poetry Home Repair Manual

Teens Have Gifts to Offer

Tenderness and Meat Loaf

The Annual Christmas Dress Shopping Trip

The Argument and Persuasion Essay

The Berry Patch

The Cheetah The Spider and Me by Gloria Orlando Ives

The Conversation Itself

The Craft of Fiction Writing, Part Three

The Craft of Fiction, Part Eight

The Craft of Fiction, Part Five

The Craft of Fiction, Part Four

The Craft of Fiction, Part Nine

The Craft of Fiction, Part One

The Craft of Fiction, Part Seven

The Craft of Fiction, Part Six

The Craft of Fiction, Part Two

The Debris of Abstraction and Sentimentality

The Development of a Poem by Betty Shafer

The Flower That Splits the Rock

The Gestures I Remember Him By

The Holiness of the Heart's Affections

The House of the Seven Gambles - Revised

The Most Promising Fictional Characters are Obsessed

The Perfect Rock

The Pocket Poetry Parenting Guide

The Story of One Poem's Evolution

There's Help Out There for Building a Writing Life You Love

Thoughts on How to Structure an Essay Collection

Thoughts Upon the Birthday of My Son Seth, 1975-2000

Three Days and Three Nights

Three Waters for Success

Tips on Places to Publish, Interesting Journals, and other Resources

To Follow the Right God Home

To Keep Our Senses Open

Today is Under Construction

Trusting Scrappiness

Truth & Beauty: Ann Patchett's memoir about her friendship with Lucy Grealy

Try Your Hand at Fiction

Try Your Hand at Writing a Prose Poem

Under Cover of Green

Useful Writing Strategies from The True and Outstanding Adventures of the Hunt Sisters

Using Journals in Nonfiction Writing: Three Excellent Examples

Using Lyric Techniques in Your Writing, Part One

Using Lyric Techniques in Your Writing, Part Three

Using Lyric Techniques in Your Writing, Part Two

Using Lyric Techniques in Your Writing: Part Four

Using Quotes to Spur Your Writing

Villanelles by Writing It Real Subscribers

Washing and Waxing the Fruit of Your Labor

What I Learned at the Halfway House

What I Was Thinking

What is Creative Writing?

What is Poetry?

What is Poetry?

What Keeps Us Writing?

What Writers’ Workshops Need

Whit Press Founder Claudia Mauro Empowers Community Through the Literary Arts

Why Do You Write? How Do You Write?

Why Do You Write? How Do You Write? - Part 2

Words for the Groups in Our Lives

Working with a Writing Mentor

Working with Mentors, Both Near and Far

Writing a Father's Day Poem

Writing About Place

Writing About Your Day Job

Writing All That is Unsolved in Your Heart

Writing Childhood's Dark Side

Writing for Father's Day

Writing for Mother’s Day

Writing for the Holidays

Writing from Anticipation

Writing from the Experience of a Career that Stumbled

Writing is a Wave in the Mind

Writing is Like 'Junking'

Writing It Real Subscribers’ Braided Poem

Writing On Love: Lessons From Pablo Neruda and Christopher Smart

Writing Prompts To Anchor Summer

Writing Prompts To Anchor Summer

Writing True: The Art and Craft of Creative Nonfiction

Writing With Sense of Place

Writing, Reading, and Revising: Soul Work

You are My Heroes



 
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