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Beating Artlessness to Heal and Save Ourselves and Hopefully, Our World — 11 Comments

  1. Lost state grant money unexpectedly because a board member accused my of writing something therapeutic. It came from a reference letter. That was the end of a long series of grants. Interesting Lazarus story. Certainly remember what happened with the twisting of the poem.

    • Thank you for calling our attention to this article written a year and a half ago. My, how it remains timely today with the border mess so dangerous to those detained and with people fron six more countries added to the list of those not allowed to receive residency in the US despite family members and spouses already here. We must as writers take a stand for human values of love and compassion to continue to build our diverse and competent society.

      • Oh, Sheila, I am beyond shocked. The minute Rachel Maddow was handed a story and tears came into her eyes — I understood that the minute those kids were taken from their parents arms they would be bathed in cortisol and all the stress hormones and that the effects of those baths will last for life. That the course of their lives will be completely altered, unable to attach securely, maybe not remembering what happened, not knowing their parents’ horror and helplessness, and now I have to just eat the message that Oh I am afraid to say it. People who should be compassionate or I thought would be — they are unable to disapprove or even register it emotionally or even intellectually. And here we are all being socialized to be collaborators!

        I can’t even understand it.

  2. Gorgeously written, Sheila. And I admire your calm. I probably shouldn’t send this response, such that all WIR members can read, but it’s real and forthcoming and reminds us of times when we go off the rails. I wrote two different letters to the editor, sending to two different newspapers. But I was so angry, that I wrote snarky, maybe white hot, surefire rejection writes. And, then b/c of my book on Emma and the statue, “I Lift My Lamp,” I portrayed myself as a know-it-all. Foolish, I know. Then I thought of working on a satirical piece, revising lines from great literature, as list ‘poetry.’ Dropped that aaltogether b/c I’m in the middle of other work (and life stuff) and can only do so much. I love that I can read your work and inspiring ideas and prompts, so grounded and measured and with such beauty and aplomb.

    Nyla Dartt, your response is beautiful and moving and relates much to me. You’ve written of the loss and feelings that followed. It seems that your write above offers
    another approach for a lovely, meaningful essay.

    • I thoroughly agree that writing brings light. I love your comments. they have inspired me to share that When I was twelve I lost a musician companion who committed suicide because his mentor died. Because he was of a different “race’ than I, my presence at his memorial service was hampered. I sat outside at a bus stop to listen to a church choir and to this day, the sound of gospel moves me to tears. My body continues to hold the grief I was unable to express (I couldn’t tell anyone why I was so upset that my wonderful friend had died). My sadness over his death lasted until high school. The only way I was able to emerge from that grief was to write about it. I’ve been trying to find a way through that story ever since and it always fills me with both grief and sadness but it also ignites my “activist” sweet spot. Art has always brought joy and inspiration in the midst of grief about injustice.

      • Thank you for this story. Now is a good time to write it–love and empathy and compassion are human traits across all races and ethnicities, but our social groups need as much encouragement as possible to honor this or our democracy will self-destruct.

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