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Category Archives: WIR2019

Tell It Slant: Author Brenda Miller on Writing Creative Nonfiction and a Generous Excerpt from the Book

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 5, 2019 by Brenda MillerDecember 13, 2019

Introduction to an Excerpt from Tell it Slant (Available from Powell’s and Amazon as well as your favorite bookseller). By Brenda Miller In 2001, when Suzanne Paola and I began talking about writing a textbook for creative nonfiction, no such … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, WIR2014, WIR2019 | Tagged memoir, personal essay, Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises | 1 Reply

Your Writing Is Your Worthy Friend

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 7, 2019 by Sheila BenderNovember 7, 2019

We know that writing requires a kind of sacred attention to what we see, hear, taste, touch and feel in our surroundings and memories. It can be difficult, though, to linger in those places when time flies swiftly by. It … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2019 | 3 Replies

Writing Between Paragraphs An Essay Forms

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 3, 2019 by Sheila BenderOctober 6, 2019

This week, wanting so much to write on the day that would have been my son’s 44th birthday, but not knowing how to put my heart-filled words on the page, I reread “Canoe” by Sherrie Flick, a story in 446 … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, Reading for Writing, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2019 | 15 Replies

Excerpt From Molly Tinsley’s Novel Things Too Big to Name, Followed by a Q&A wth the Author

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 5, 2019 by Molly B. TinsleySeptember 5, 2019

This spring, thrilled to be reading a new novel by Molly Best Tinsley, both a teaching colleague and Writing It Real contributor, I was even more thrilled to have found a novel that I could not put down from the … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, The Working Writer, WIR2014, WIR2019 | 5 Replies

Writing the Emotionally Important Scenes

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 1, 2019 by Sheila BenderSeptember 1, 2019

A Princeton professor I once read while for some reason I had no pen or device to record his name and the name of the article wrote that when we read a novel we are speeding up time as one … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, The Working Writer, WIR2019 | 11 Replies

Writing in Letter Form (Epistolary Writing) Keeps You Going

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 22, 2019 by Sheila BenderAugust 31, 2019

I am reposting an article form the 2012 archives with exercises for using the epistolary form to stay inspired and to keep writing. I had been a reader of letters to Ann Landers and other newspaper columnists to whom the … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2019 | Tagged writing exercises | 3 Replies

Beating Artlessness to Heal and Save Ourselves and Hopefully, Our World

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 16, 2019 by Sheila BenderFebruary 5, 2020

Emma Lazarus’ 1893 sonnet engraved on a plaque on the pedestal of the Statue of Liberty has been made famous again this week. The New Colossus Not like the brazen giant of Greek fame, With conquering limbs astride from land … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2019, Writing Makes a Difference | 11 Replies

4 More Podcasts of Writers in Conversation and 7 More Writer Resource Links Sure to Help and Entertain You in Your Writing Life

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 1, 2019 by Sheila BenderAugust 1, 2019

The list is endless, of course, but here are some of my favorites. First, four more podcasts from the Writing It Real archives and then seven more resources I’ve learned about and very much enjoyed recently. My hope is that … Continue reading →

Posted in Reading for Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2019 | Tagged reading for writing, writing inspiration | 1 Reply

Listening to Writers–New, Emerging and Well-Published

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 25, 2019 by Sheila BenderJuly 25, 2019

Every month, two of my 30-minute interviews with writers air on  KPTZ 91.9 FM. Over many years now, I have interviewed not only well-published poets, journalists, novelists, memoirists and other creative nonfiction writers, but those who are at the beginnings … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2019, Writers Building a Community of Readers, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged on writing, reading for writing | Leave a reply

20 Online Sites to Increase Your Reading Pleasure Despite Today’s Pressures and Lack of Time

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 11, 2019 by Sheila BenderJuly 11, 2019

This week I am posting links to 20 sites that I’ve been “reading around” online. It’s summer and supposed to be those slow, lazy days, but there is so much going on for so many of us, that we may … Continue reading →

Posted in Reading for Writing, WIR2019 | Tagged reading for writing | 1 Reply

Keeping a Travel Journal You Love, Part 2 from Tarn Wilson

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 5, 2019 by Tarn WilsonJuly 5, 2019

NINE TRAVEL JOURNALING EXERCISES Exercise 1 – Ask For What You Want As one of my first entries, I set goals or ask for what I want from a trip. The activities are slightly different: setting goals implies I have … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2019 | Tagged writing exercises, writing life | 2 Replies

Keeping a Travel Journal You Love, Part 1

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 27, 2019 by Tarn WilsonJune 27, 2019

[Summer often means travel and/or entertaining guests who have traveled to see you. Often times, we think of this as taking time away from our writing, but keeping a travel journal can keep us writing during our travels and during … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2019 | Tagged journaling, writing advice | 5 Replies

Keeping the Political Personal: “To Give or to Deny” by Journalist Amy Hewes

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 13, 2019 by Amy HewesJune 13, 2019

As I wrote last week, I feel lucky to have recently had journalist Amy Hewes on my KPTZ FM radio program, “In Conversation: Discussions on Writing and the Writing Life.”  Here’s the link to listen to our conversation.  In it, Amy … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Reading for Writing, WIR2019 | Tagged Informational Writing, personal essay, reading for writing | 5 Replies

The Opinion Piece: The Great Connector by Amy Hewes

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 6, 2019 by Amy HewesJune 12, 2019

I was lucky enough to have recently had journalist Amy Hewes on my KPTZ FM radio program, “In Conversation: Discussions on Writing and the Writing Life.”  Here’s the link to listen to our conversation.  In it, Amy explains how she goes … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Podcasts, Reading for Writing, WIR2019 | Tagged Informational Writing, personal essay, reading for writing | 1 Reply

Writing to Explore Influence and Admiration, Part 2

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 21, 2019 by Sheila BenderMay 21, 2019

Many of us know the poem “Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night“ by the Welsh poet Dylan Thomas, who is pleading in his famous villanelle that his father not easily give in to death.  The archetype of the … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2019 | Leave a reply

Writing to Explore Influence and Admiration, Part 1

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 21, 2019 by Sheila BenderMay 21, 2019

Writing a litany of praise for anyone to whom you owe gratitude for life lessons will work in interesting ways if you take on the seemingly unpraiseworthy as if it were praiseworthy. You will get interesting results that push your … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2019 | Tagged Trusting Images, Writing Poetry | 4 Replies

Learning from Others’ Pieces Written in the Second Person

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 16, 2019 by Sheila BenderMay 16, 2019

A participant in my recent online class,”You: Writing in the Second Person” shared a website with us: Dead Housekeeping: Moody Home Tips, which features a string of short pieces in the second person contributed by writers on subjects as disparate … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, Reading for Writing, WIR2019 | 1 Reply

In My Opinion: Letter to My Husband’s Uncle

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 9, 2019 by Sheila BenderMay 10, 2019

5/9/19 Hello Harlan, We had a wonderful time recently celebrating my mother’s 92nd birthday with my daughter’s family and her in-laws, who have moved from the Midwest to a town just north of Seattle to be near their son and … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2019, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged Epistolary writing, Informational Writing, personal essay | 5 Replies

Job Review: How the Writer Within Sees Performance

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 2, 2019 by Sheila BenderMay 2, 2019

In the work world there are quarterly reviews in which employees do self-evaluations on how well they have performed in their jobs. Bosses also evaluate each employee’s progress. You can take this model as your opportunity to write as both … Continue reading →

Posted in WIR2019 | 1 Reply

A Note from 40 Years of Teaching Myself and Others to Write

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 25, 2019 by Sheila BenderApril 25, 2019

Sometimes I go to sleep with my heart full of sadness. A student’s poem that day about a bicycling daughter killed by a bus as it made a turn, someone’s essay about losing her son to a strep infection that … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2019 | Tagged on writing, writing advice | 6 Replies

Revising Older Poems — It’s Never Too Late to Take Another Look

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 18, 2019 by Sheila BenderApril 18, 2019

[This article appeared first in April, 2012.] April is National Poetry Month. Feeling a little badly that I hadn’t started new poems to celebrate the month, I decided to look through old files in a computer folder labeled “archived poems.” … Continue reading →

Posted in Revisions - Sample Successes, WIR2019 | 2 Replies

Moving Your Reader in Time and Space

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 9, 2019 by Sheila BenderApril 11, 2019

How do we move our writing and characters in time and space without slowing our readers down and certainly without confusing them? We must learn to stop doing what I call “taking the reader down the hall,” filling in the … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2019 | Leave a reply

Listening to How a Poem Sounds Helps You Write Both Poems and Prose — Meaning is in the Sounds!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 4, 2019 by Sheila BenderApril 4, 2019

[The following article in honor of National Poetry Month appeared in slightly different form in March of 2003.] John Keats created the term “negative capability,” the idea that a poem holds within it one thing as well as its opposite. … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2019 | Tagged writing exercises, Writing Poetry | 1 Reply

“Sanctuary,” Contest Winning Essay by Nancy Lamb

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 28, 2019 by Nancy LambMarch 29, 2019

Our guest judge Holly Hughes, wrote this about Nancy Lamb’s essay: In this essay, the narrator recalls her first visit to Martin’s Ranch in the red rock canyons high above Santa Fe and her first experience with the landscape as … Continue reading →

Posted in Contest Winner, From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, WIR2019 | 2 Replies

Tender is the Harvest, A Winning Essay by Laurie McConnachie

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 21, 2019 by Laurie McConnachieMarch 23, 2019

Our contest judge Holly Hughes  wrote these words in choosing Laurie McConnachie’s essay as one of our three winners: This is a deeply moving account of a daughter who lost her mother to a brain tumor when she was in … Continue reading →

Posted in Contest Winner, From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, WIR2019 | Tagged contest winning essay, memoir, personal essay, women's voices | 11 Replies

Beginning Again with Tree Spirits by Katlaina Rayne

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 14, 2019 by Katlaina RayneMarch 14, 2019

I am pleased to share another essay by a Writing It Real member. “Beginning Again with Tree Spirits” illustrates the diverse topics our members write about. Reading Katlaina’s essay will definitely change your relationship to the trees and forests in … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, WIR2019 | Tagged memoir, personal essay, women's voices | 3 Replies

Creative Writing: Carpe diem, quam minimum, credula postera

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 7, 2019 by Gary LangfordMarch 7, 2019

I met poet, novelist, and playwright Gary Langford through a long time friend of mine who met Gary years ago in Australia when they were both young men. In the years since, Gary has written in many genres, run a … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, WIR2019 | Tagged on writing, writing advice, writing inspiration | 1 Reply

“In Honor of Mr. Alfred Scott,” by Jean Peelen

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 28, 2019 by Jean PeelenFebruary 28, 2019

As Black History Month ends and we have learned more about black religious leaders, scientists, politicians, professors, film directors, sports figures, journalists, poets and authors, among many other professions, those of other ethnicities have had an opportunity to reflect on … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, WIR2019, Writers Building a Community of Readers, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged personal essay | 4 Replies

Tornado Watch by Carol Smallwood

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 21, 2019 by Carol SmallwoodFebruary 22, 2019

Writing It Real contributor Carol Smallwood is a poet with several volumes to her name, a retired career librarian who has produced books of value to those who direct and run libraries and educational programs, and she is the editor … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Reading for Writing, WIR2019 | Tagged personal essay, reading for writing, women's voices | 3 Replies

Hey, Writing-in-Progress — Will You Be My Valentine?

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 14, 2019 by Molly B. TinsleyFebruary 14, 2019

The relationship began three winters ago. Driving a country road in the early dusk, I hit a deer–or as a knowledgeable friend suggested afterward, a deer hit me. A buck with branching antlers leaped from the trees on one side … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2019 | Tagged on writing, writing advice | 7 Replies

Flash! It’s a Great Form to Practice!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 7, 2019 by Sheila BenderFebruary 7, 2019

What is flash writing and why do authors like to write flash pieces? It’s quicker to write than a novel or memoir. It’s a challenge to see how much you can say with a short word limit, up 500 to … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2014, WIR2019 | Tagged flash, sudden nonfiction | Leave a reply

Staying in a Committed Relationship With Your Writing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 31, 2019 by Sheila BenderJanuary 31, 2019

According to Webster’s II New Riverside University Dictionary, commitment means “the state of being bound emotionally or intellectually to an ideal or course of action.” Emotionally or intellectually are good words for the writer to fuse. To keep on writing … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2019 | Tagged on writing, trust your writing, writing life | 5 Replies

Using Private Writing to Locate Your True Subjects

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 24, 2019 by Rebecca McClanahanJanuary 24, 2019

This week’s article is a second excerpt from Rebecca McClanahan’s instructional book Write Your Heart Out: Exploring & Expressing What Matters To You, published by Walking Stick Press. It originaly appeared in 2003. One of the problems with being a … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, WIR2019 | Tagged journaling, overcoming writer's block, writing exercises | 3 Replies

A Writing Buffet-Help Yourself!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 17, 2019 by Sheila BenderJanuary 17, 2019

It’s time for some post-New Year’s inspiration so I am reposting a slightly updated article that is full of quotes to inspire and approaches to creating new material from that inspiration. Thirteen years ago, my grandson Toby turned three.  All … Continue reading →

Posted in Reading for Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2019 | Tagged overcoming writer's block, personal essay, writing inspiration | 1 Reply

Writing Toward a Clearer, More Centered Self Involves Poetry But Don’t Be Afraid!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 10, 2019 by Sheila BenderJanuary 17, 2019

Writing poetry, no matter what genre you usually work in, is truly an experience of re-creating a self. In writing poems from experience and from meditative and reflective moments, you become the maker of something that builds increased intimacy with … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2019 | Tagged Trusting Images, Writing Poetry | 2 Replies

Author Magazine Editor Bill Kenower Interviews Sheila Bender on Creativity and Writing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 3, 2019 by Sheila BenderJanuary 16, 2019

In this video, I talk for ten minutes with Bill Kenower about my beginnings as a writer and what I know now about the craft and about the value of a life path in writing. Bill asked me some intriguing questions, … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2019 | Tagged on writing, writing advice, writing inspiration | 3 Replies

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