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Tag Archives: Writing Craft Tools

Memoirist Tarn Wilson Interviews Novelist Mike Karpa, Author of the Novel The Wealthy Whites of Williamsburg, on His Writing Process

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 1, 2024 by Tarn WilsonFebruary 1, 2024

Tarn Wilson tells us: When I was in my twenties, I joined a writing group of more experienced writers, which, for fifteen years, felt like having my own creative writing graduate program. Mike Karpa was a founding member of that … Continue reading →

Posted in 2024, From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, The Working Writer | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction, Writing Scenes | Leave a reply

Sharon Oard Warner on Writing the Novella, a Q&A with Book Excerpt

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 6, 2021 by Sheila BenderMay 7, 2021

Earlier this spring, I received a review copy of Writing the Novella by Sharon Oard Warner, and I continue to pore over it. I have loved many novellas in my time, often without even realizing they are novellas. Warner’s method … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2021 | Tagged writing advice, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction, writing memoir | 3 Replies

On Creative Writing – Four Spotlights

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 3, 2020 by Sheila BenderDecember 17, 2020

On Creative Writing “The world — this shadow of the soul, or other me, lies wide around. Its attractions are the keys, which unlock my thoughts and make me acquainted with myself. I run eagerly into this resounding tumult…” –Ralph … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2014, WIR2020 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing inspiration | 1 Reply

Tell It Slant: Author Brenda Miller on Writing Creative Nonfiction and a Generous Excerpt from the Book

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 5, 2019 by Brenda MillerDecember 13, 2019

Introduction to an Excerpt from Tell it Slant (Available from Powell’s and Amazon as well as your favorite bookseller). By Brenda Miller In 2001, when Suzanne Paola and I began talking about writing a textbook for creative nonfiction, no such … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, WIR2014, WIR2019 | Tagged memoir, personal essay, Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises | 1 Reply

We All Have Opinions: The Argument and Persuasion Essay

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 20, 2019 by Sheila BenderJune 19, 2019

Following the opinion pieces by Amy Hewes posted over the past two weeks, here is instruction on writing the argument and persuasion personal essay. It appeared in Writing It Real in 2014. I look forward to hearing from you in … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, WIR2014 | Tagged personal essay, Writing Craft Tools | 1 Reply

In a Season of Lists, Write a Litany to Help Yourself Keep Writing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 20, 2018 by Sheila BenderDecember 20, 2018

It is holiday time and amidst the tornado-like whirl of shopping, decorating, traveling, baking, cooking, and gathering with family, friends, colleagues and community, of offering help in shelters and churches, it may seem hard to write. And even harder still … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, WIR2018 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises, writing inspiration, Writing Poetry | 3 Replies

I Can’t Get Enough of Flash Memoir!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 29, 2018 by Sheila BenderNovember 29, 2018

Writing Flash Memoir is great exercise for writers. I’ve been experiencing this in my own writing and editing and in the classes I have been teaching online and in-person. Getting to the point and writing tight while still relying on details … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2018 | Tagged memoir, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises | 2 Replies

Enabling Voice by Molly Tinsley

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 15, 2018 by Molly B. TinsleyOctober 19, 2022

We praise writing for its voice, but run into problems when we try to describe exactly what it is we’re responding to. Just as we each have an identifiable voice when we speak, there is something we call a writer’s … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Reading for Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2018 | Tagged on writing, writing advice, Writing Craft Tools | 10 Replies

A Wonderful Genre: Models and Lessons to Help You Write Flash

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 25, 2018 by Sheila BenderOctober 25, 2018

For the past month, I have been teaching an online class in writing in the flash subgenre. Last Saturday, I taught an all-day in-person seminar on the genre. So, this week, I am sharing some of my lesson ideas and … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2018 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises | 1 Reply

Style Is the Wardrobe, Hairdo and Makeup a Storyteller’s Voice Wears

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 5, 2018 by Sheila BenderJuly 5, 2018

[This article originally appeared online for the Eleven Stories online writing program.– Ed.] My mother called me after the royal wedding of Prince Harry and Meghan Markle to talk about the bride’s gown. The daughter of a ladies coats and suit … Continue reading →

Posted in Reading for Writing, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2018 | Tagged reading for writing, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction | Leave a reply

Endings Part II–Twists, Surprises, and Morals

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 21, 2018 by Sheila BenderJune 21, 2018

Here’s the second part of the series I created for Kahini’s Eleven Stories program. I hope you enjoy the short stories as you follow along on the included documents as I read. And, of course, I hope you enjoy my discussions … Continue reading →

Posted in Reading for Writing, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2017 | Tagged reading for writing, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction | Leave a reply

Endings Part One

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 13, 2018 by Sheila BenderJune 13, 2018

Here is a video I prepared for a program online called Eleven Stories. I hope you enjoy my talk (with documents in there so you can follow along as I read and lecture).  I will post Endings Part II next … Continue reading →

Posted in WIR2018 | Tagged reading for writing, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction | 1 Reply

An Approach to Writing Flash Nonfiction

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 7, 2018 by Sheila BenderJune 7, 2018

Flash prose, sometimes called flash literature, is creative writing between 500 and 1500 words. This term includes further subgenres prose poetry, short essays and vignettes. Like the longer essay, or something now called short memoir, the flash personal essay evokes experience and arrives … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2018 | Tagged personal essay, Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises | 3 Replies

More on How to Write the How-to Essay (and Why)

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 10, 2018 by Sheila BenderMay 10, 2018

I’ve been teaching the how-to essay again and reading models. I love how the how-to format offers the personal essayist a structure that inspires poignancy, honesty, and humor. Here is an excerpt from my book Writing and Sharing Personal Essays. … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2018 | Tagged personal essay, Writing Craft Tools | Leave a reply

Omniscient Narrator–Have fun with the all-seeing!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 15, 2018 by Sheila BenderMarch 22, 2018

I’ve made a short video for a program called 11 Stories that has “aired” for the people in that program. I am sharing it with Writing It Real members this week. In the video, I give a lesson on the third-person omniscient … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, Reading for Writing, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2018 | Tagged reading for writing, Writing Craft Tools | 4 Replies

Crafting Stories for Children (and Adults)

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 1, 2018 by Nancy LambMarch 8, 2018

This week’s article by Nancy Lamb is a repost from 2008. It includes information on easy readers as well as on shaping other stories for children (or for any reader, really).  Nancy Lamb, author of The Writer’s Guide to Crafting … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2018 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction | 1 Reply

Anna Quinn’s Novel The Night Child Holds Lessons for Writers

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 25, 2018 by Sheila BenderJanuary 25, 2018

In The Night Child, Nora Brown, descends into the kind of fragmentation that results when traumatic events have been repressed, her world becomes anxious and dark. In Anna Quinn’s skillful hands, both the world inside of Nora (who is no … Continue reading →

Posted in Reading for Writing, WIR2018 | Tagged reading for writing, Writing Craft Tools | 1 Reply

Stage and Screen Prompts to Help Your Writing Craft

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 7, 2017 by Sheila BenderSeptember 7, 2017

Whether you have wanted to write a play or a screenplay or are involved in writing memoir, thinking like a playwright will help you tell a story well by writing in scenes, creating evolving characters (yourself and others in your … Continue reading →

Posted in WIR2017 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises | 2 Replies

Writing Poetry for a Clearer, More Centered Self

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 3, 2017 by Sheila BenderAugust 3, 2017

Writing poetry, no matter what genre you usually work in, is truly an experience of re-creating a self. In writing poems from experience and from meditative and reflective moments, we are the makers of something that helps us come to … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2017 | Tagged Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Poetry | 3 Replies

Reading as a Writer Reads — Taking a Lesson from the Writing in Just Fall, a Novel

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 6, 2017 by Sheila BenderJuly 6, 2017

I am an avid fan of Jane Friedman’s blog on writing and publishing. She is informative and up-to-date, presenting her expertise with scope and clarity. This week, I read her interview with screenwriter turned novelist, Nina R. Sadowsky.  I was … Continue reading →

Posted in Reading for Writing, WIR2017 | Tagged reading for writing, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction | 4 Replies

A Useful Review for Employing the Five Senses in Writing Scenes

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 22, 2017 by Sheila BenderJune 22, 2017

In writing, we only feel included as readers when our senses are involved. As we read with our senses involved, we learn more about ourselves and others by encountering the way the others record surroundings through their senses. As writers, … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, WIR2017 | Tagged reading for writing, Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools | 2 Replies

A Writer’s Role Models: Canadian Author Miriam Towes and Her 15-Year-Old Character Elfrieda

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 19, 2017 by Sheila BenderJanuary 19, 2017

This week, I have made a video for Writing It Real’s Weekly Article. In it, I share a passage from Canadian author Miriam Toews’ novel All My Puny Sorrows in which a talented 15-year-old piano player exercises her genius against … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2016, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged reading for writing, women's voices, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Scenes | 9 Replies

Toward Beginning A Year of Writing Poetry (Or Improving Your Prose Through Poetry)

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 5, 2017 by Sheila BenderJanuary 5, 2017

For January: Dreams and Repetitions In this month of the inauguration of a new president of our country, it seems particularly appropriate and important to study the orators of our great nation who called out for freedoms we enjoy. Reading … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2016 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises, writing inspiration, Writing Poetry | 6 Replies

Wash and Shine the Fruit of Your Labor

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 13, 2015 by Sheila BenderMay 13, 2015

I believe that we write in three stages–we act as playful inventors on the page, move on to the task of shaping our experience, and finally edit what we have written. Although these stages sometimes overlap a bit, on the … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2015 | Tagged editing your writing, revising writing, writing advice, Writing Craft Tools | 2 Replies

20 Dialog Building Prompts

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 17, 2014 by Sheila BenderDecember 17, 2014

Dialog moves a narrative along in fiction, personal essay, memoir and poetry, too. Playing with ways to experiment with dialog will help you build your dexterity with this aspect of the writing craft. And playing with the prompts might have you … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing dialog, writing exercises, Writing Fiction | 2 Replies

20 Character Building Exercises

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 10, 2014 by Sheila BenderDecember 10, 2014

When we write fiction, we need to get inside our characters’ beings. When we write memoir, we need to learn more about our own character as well as the character of people who have influenced our experience. But sometimes we need … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises, Writing Fiction | 2 Replies

Play with 20 Scene Building Prompts

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 19, 2014 by Sheila BenderNovember 19, 2014

Last week, I wrote about doing a scene-writing exercise short story writer and teacher, Ron Carlson, invented. This week, I am posting 20 ideas I’ve put together for practice writing scenes that will help you develop dexterity in presenting your … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises, Writing Scenes | 4 Replies

The Physicality of Writing Scenes and Characters

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 12, 2014 by Sheila BenderNovember 16, 2014

As writers, we are aware of the dictum “Show, don’t tell,” but sometimes what we think of as showing turns out to be only another way of telling and avoiding showing. On this subject, I often quote fiction writer Ron … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises, Writing Scenes | 2 Replies

Writing Dispatch from Denmark: Northern Jutland Pantoum

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 5, 2014 by Sheila BenderAugust 6, 2014

I am in Denmark for the month of August visiting my daughter and her family. She and her husband are here working, and the international school my grandsons attended is out for the summer. My job is being nanny, but it’s more … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2014 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, Writing Poetry | 2 Replies

The Interview: A Way to Write More Complex Characters in Your Memoir

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 6, 2014 by Andrea ClausenJuly 9, 2014

Often when I try to write about my mother the same details surface. In my childhood memories she is always busy either working or participating on different committees; when she is home she is tired and does not like to … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged memoir, writing advice, Writing Craft Tools | Leave a reply

Using Anaphora — A Model for a Speech

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 16, 2013 by Emily M. BenderOctober 16, 2013

When my daughter Emily Bender was writing a Valedictorian speech to be delivered at her UC Berkeley graduation, she was nervous about having something worth saying. With all of the demands of her life as a graduating senior, she had … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, Reading for Writing, WIR2013 | Tagged how to write a speech, personal essays, Valedictorian speech, Writing Craft Tools | 1 Reply

On Writing the Eulogy

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 2, 2013 by David ReichOctober 2, 2013

As writers, we are frequently the ones asked to write eulogies for friends and family members. Even if we are not asked, we may feel moved to write eulogies to honor those we loved and then to share our writing … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, The Working Writer, WIR2013 | Tagged personal essay, reading for writing, writing advice, Writing Craft Tools | 3 Replies

In May I Rush to Use Sensory Details

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 5, 2013 by Sheila BenderSeptember 12, 2013

As adults, we are so used to summarizing and editorializing. We have learned that abstractions are considered “smart” in writing and having opinions makes us sound even smarter. That’s what our teachers wanted from us on papers and on essay … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2013 | Tagged trust your writing, Trusting Images, writing advice, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Poetry | 4 Replies

Change It Up: Trying New Forms Encourages the Writing Mind

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 22, 2013 by Sheila BenderMay 4, 2013

“Grandma, do you know what limericks are? I wrote one today. Do you want to hear it?” my 11-year-old grandson Toby asked after telling me about a guest poet’s visit to his fifth grade classroom. Of course, I wanted to … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2013 | Tagged writing advice, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Poetry | 2 Replies

Five Tips for Inspiring Quality Writing from Life Experience

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 13, 2013 by Sheila BenderDecember 13, 2018

Tip #1 — Find An Occasion Poet Stanley Plumly says that poems must weigh more at the end than they do at the beginning. As with poetry, the personal essay and memoir supply a vehicle for writers to find out what … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2013 | Tagged on writing, writing advice, Writing Craft Tools, writing inspiration, writing life | 2 Replies

Taking Chances

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 5, 2013 by Jack HeffronMarch 6, 2013

After years of writing, editing, publishing authors and teaching, Jack Heffron knows why we get stuck and how to work around that and back into our material. He’ll be teaching with Meg Files and Sheila Bender at our Writing It … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2013 | Tagged Informational Writing, on writing, trust your writing, writing advice, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction, writing memoir | 2 Replies

Excerpt from Meg Files Novel The Third Law of Motion

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 30, 2013 by Meg FilesJanuary 30, 2013

This excerpt is from Chapter 15 of The Third Law of Motion by Meg Files, published by Anaphora Literary Press, 2011, reprinted here by permission of the author. Lonnie had already started work as an inventory clerk in a new discount … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, WIR2013 | Tagged fantasy fiction, women's voices, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction, Writing Scenes | 5 Replies

Lasting Impressions – Excerpt from The Art and Craft of Storytelling

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 31, 2012 by Nancy LambDecember 17, 2012

Author Nancy Lamb has published two books on writing fiction with Writer’s Digest Books, The Art and Craft of Storytelling: A Comprehenisve Guide to Classic Writing Techniques, from which we present an excerpt this week, as well as The Writer’s … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2012 | Tagged writing advice, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction | 6 Replies

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