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Category Archives: WIR2012

You Are My Heroes — A Letter to Writers

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 26, 2012 by Sheila BenderDecember 26, 2012

You may have taken time away from writing while preparing for the holidays, but now’s the time to jump back in to reach your writing goals. This week’s article from the Writing It Real archives first appeared in 2006. If … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | Tagged on writing, writing advice, writing exercises, writing inspiration | 4 Replies

The Holiness of the Heart’s Affections

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 19, 2012 by Sheila BenderMarch 6, 2013

The following article about trusting our need to write was first published in Writing It Real on December 25, 2003.  As this year draws to a close, it seems timely again to remember that as artists, we must overcome  whatever lack … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | Tagged on writing, personal essay, writing advice | 2 Replies

Authornomics Interview with Sheila Bender

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 12, 2012 by Sheila BenderDecember 16, 2012

Authornomics is an author interview series created by Andrea Hurst and Associates agency. The August 16, 2012 interview I did for the series was chosen as one of their year’s best. The many good questions the agents there asked gave … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2012 | Tagged agent, Publishing, writing career, writing life | 3 Replies

Writing Between the Lines: A Personal Essay Writing Idea

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 5, 2012 by Sheila BenderOctober 3, 2013

I receive news headlines online from the Washington Post. It is unusual for one of their tech headlines to capture my interest, let alone to inspire a creative writing idea. But yesterday, a headline about a tech book review caught … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2012 | Tagged personal essay, Trusting Images, writing advice | 5 Replies

Community “Book-Excerpt” Book Club – Considering the Work of AE Russell

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 28, 2012 by Sheila BenderDecember 17, 2012

Once a month, we’ll post selections from an author’s work for the Writing It Real community to contemplate, consider and remark upon as writers. I’ll follow each month’s excerpt with questions to spark comments from Writing It Real readers. We’ll … Continue reading →

Posted in Book Club, WIR2012 | Tagged reading for writing, writing advice, writing inspiration | 4 Replies

A Holiday Letter

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 20, 2012 by Sheila BenderDecember 17, 2012

After a request from a Writing It Real member to write more on the topic of composing holiday letters, I decided first to write my holiday letter and see what lessons came. I started with the scene of a recent … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | Tagged memoir, personal essay, trust your images | 9 Replies

Making a Book from Lists: An Interview with Adam Diament

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 14, 2012 by Adam DiamentDecember 17, 2012

On a recent teaching trip to Southern, CA, I visited with my college friend Cynthia. Among the many things we talked about was her oldest son’s new self-published book, The Top 10 Jewish… . She handed me a copy and … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, WIR2012 | Tagged Informational Writing, on writing, reading for writing | 2 Replies

In Praise of Inadequate Gifts

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 7, 2012 by Tarn WilsonJune 11, 2014

Former Writing It Real intern, Tarn Wilson, shares an exquisite, humble essay about the times we confront loss in the lives of those we don’t know well and the times others address our own losses. This essay first appeared in Harvard … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged personal essay | 10 Replies

Lasting Impressions – Excerpt from The Art and Craft of Storytelling

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 31, 2012 by Nancy LambDecember 17, 2012

Author Nancy Lamb has published two books on writing fiction with Writer’s Digest Books, The Art and Craft of Storytelling: A Comprehenisve Guide to Classic Writing Techniques, from which we present an excerpt this week, as well as The Writer’s … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2012 | Tagged writing advice, Writing Craft Tools, Writing Fiction | 6 Replies

Want to Start a Fresh Essay? Write From What is Unsolved

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 24, 2012 by Sheila BenderDecember 17, 2012

If you have been having difficulty finding topics or ways into the areas that you most want to explore in your writing, try the following exercise I developed from reading Rilke’s Letter to a Young Poet to refresh your approach … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | Tagged narration, writing advice, writing life | 4 Replies

Expect It In The Casino by Diane C. Drury, Our Third Place Winner

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 17, 2012 by Diane DruryDecember 18, 2012

The recent Writing It Real contest provided the opportunity for people to write about the world around them, send in a draft, receive my responses for help in revising, and then re-enter a revision for our final judge, Betsy Howell. … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, Revisions - Sample Successes, WIR2012 | Tagged contest winner, Writing Poetry | Leave a reply

Taking Notes: Assisted Living — Evolution of Helen Goehring’s Second Place Winning Essay

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 10, 2012 by Helen GoehringDecember 18, 2012

Our judge Betsy Howell wrote about her selection of Helen Goehring’s essay: “We learn from people when we stop and really see them, when we know something of their lives, past and present, and all that has made them who they … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged contest winning essay, personal essay, writing advice | 2 Replies

More Than Your English Teacher Ever Told You

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 4, 2012 by Emily M. BenderOctober 5, 2012

When an irate reader wrote the editors of Writer’s Digest Magazine because of “incorrect” grammar I used in a poem, I was concerned.  I had written “my sister and I” after a verb:  “the ones my father gave my sister … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, WIR2012 | 4 Replies

Accepting the Personal in the Personal Essay

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 4, 2012 by Mary Ann PayneOctober 4, 2012

Accepting the Personal in the Personal Essay In this week’s “Revision Diary,” I am offering an account of how writer Mary Ann Payne and I worked from a journal entry to a finished essay.  Mary Ann told me that often … Continue reading →

Posted in Revisions - Sample Successes, WIR2012 | 1 Reply

Sparking Young (and Older) Writers’ Minds Using Abantu

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 4, 2012 by Sheila BenderOctober 4, 2012

What is Abantu? Years ago during a summer writing workshop at Centrum Foundation in Port Townsend, WA, poet Robert Hass (who went on to serve as a recent U.S. Poet Laureate) taught students a short couplet form that he had … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2012 | 2 Replies

In the Presence of Wonder

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 4, 2012 by Sheila BenderOctober 4, 2012

Today as my co-instructor and I taught a course called “Teaching Poetry to Help Students Meet Literacy Standards,” something remarkable happened, something that often happens with poetry. I’d like to tell you about it because talking about what happened will … Continue reading →

Posted in WIR2012, Writing Makes a Difference | 4 Replies

A Special Birthday

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 4, 2012 by Sheila BenderOctober 4, 2012

Last night I attended a late showing of Dustin Hoffman and Susan Sarandon’s movie Moonlight Mile. An audience of young and old sat absorbed and silent as the drama of two parents and their deceased daughter’s ex-fiancé unfolded. Bearing witness … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | 4 Replies

Hula Girl

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 4, 2012 by Jan HallidayOctober 4, 2012

On a cool, partly sunny Port Townsend summer day, I met with a writer’s group whose members have continued to gather and respond to each other’s writing years after meeting each other in a five-week essay writing course. After a … Continue reading →

Posted in Revisions - Sample Successes, WIR2012 | 4 Replies

Let Your Writer Self Be With You

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 4, 2012 by Sheila BenderOctober 4, 2012

“Issues of productivity,” “sitting still with loneliness and boredom,” “compartments of time.” I mulled these phrases over.  A close writing colleague was suffering from writer’s block and had written them to me in a letter.   As I thought about what … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | 4 Replies

Boating to Breakfast: Evolution of Mary Langer Thompson’s First-Place Winning Poem

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 26, 2012 by Mary ThompsonDecember 18, 2012

In our spring/summer Writing It Real contest, writers and poets sent in writing inspired by the world around them. That’s a broad topic as we might be looking at the world close up and intimately or from afar. In selecting … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, Revisions - Sample Successes, WIR2012 | Tagged contest winner, Trusting Images, Writing Poetry | 2 Replies

Trim Twist Demonstrator

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 20, 2012 by Sheila BenderSeptember 20, 2012

Have you ever come across a call for submissions for a themed anthology or special issue of a magazine and thought, “Oh, I have something I could write that would fit”? Combing the submissions-wanted section in Poets & Writer’s magazine … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | 3 Replies

Navigating the Online Publishing and Promotion World

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 12, 2012 by Sheila BenderFebruary 13, 2014

Over the last years, it has become respectable and even desirable to publish online and in ebook format. Traditional publishers, now often called legacy publishers, are scrambling to figure out how to survive in the digital age. With the mushrooming of … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2012 | 2 Replies

Excerpt from Women of Strength by Betty Jane Cooper Johnson as told to Suzan Huney

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 29, 2012 by Suzan HuneyAugust 30, 2012

Suzan Huney used what she’d learned about taking and publishing oral history in her recent book, Women of Strength, by Betty Jane Cooper Johnson as told to Suzan Huney. The following excerpt from their work together illustrates the way oral … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | 2 Replies

Interview with Suzan Huney on Her Book Women of Strength and Writing Oral History

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 22, 2012 by Suzan HuneyAugust 22, 2012

On August 27, 2010, Suzan Huney began an oral history project with her Aunt Betty Jane Cooper Johnson, her mother’s sister.  For many years, the tight knit clan of Cooper family women had celebrated during yearly reunions, but interviewing Aunt … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, WIR2012 | 4 Replies

An Interview with Award Winning Young Adult Author Pete Hautman

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 14, 2012 by Sheila BenderAugust 14, 2012

 This spring, I lead my town’s 8th graders in discussions about Pete Hautman’s young adult novel Blank Confession, a story based on the novel Shane, which is about a mysterious cowboy who changes the lives of a family while working … Continue reading →

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In Celebration of Behind Us the Way Grows Wider: Thoughts on a few of my poems

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 8, 2012 by Sheila BenderJune 19, 2018

Last week, Pixelita Press published Behind Us the Way Grows Wider, a collection of my poems from 1980 to the present. To celebrate, I am sharing some of the poems and my commentary about them. As the title suggests, the … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | 4 Replies

What Is Fantasy Fiction?

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 1, 2012 by Brian RushAugust 1, 2012

Fantasy author Brian Rush’s article on writing for the fantasy fiction audience is filled with the history of the genre. He helps us see that even if we don’t think we like reading fantasy fiction or don’t ever write it, … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2012 | Tagged fantasy fiction | 2 Replies

Two Old Dogs and a Reverent: 15 Musings on Persona

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 25, 2012 by Sheila BenderJuly 25, 2012

-1- I am reading Garth Stein’s novel Racing in the Rain. I am drawn in by the narrator, a dog named Enzo. As I read, I remember two other works in which dogs narrate–Billy Collins’ poem “The Revenant” and Eugene … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | Tagged narration, persona, writing in persona | 3 Replies

Some of My Favorite Answers For Writers

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 18, 2012 by Sheila BenderJuly 18, 2012

A good interview calls forth the best from an interviewee, and I am pleased that I have had such opportunities to articulate the thoughts and experiences that shaped me as a writer and writing teacher.  Here are answers I’ve reread … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | Tagged on writing, overcoming writer's block, writing advice, writing inspiration | Leave a reply

To Write is to Observe: Learning This Again on a Trip to Turkey

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 11, 2012 by Sheila BenderJuly 11, 2012

To Write is to Observe: Learning This Again on a Trip to Turkey In Mid-May, I took a trip to Turkey with 11 women writers. Susan Bono and I gathered participants who met together for four days of touring Istanbul. Our … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | Tagged Trusting Images, writing inspiration | 5 Replies

For Those Who Want to Experience a Writing Retreat

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 27, 2012 by Susan RichJune 27, 2012

Susan Rich is a veteran of many writing retreats and served on the selection committee for Hedgebrook Writers’ Retreat. If you are interested in finding a writer’s retreat to spend some time away from home in an environment conducive to … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2012 | Tagged Writing Retreats | 2 Replies

Writing Memoir and Poetry, Studying with Mentors and Peers: Interview with Anne McDuffie, Recent MFA Low Residency Program Graduate

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 20, 2012 by Anne McDuffieJune 20, 2012

Have you wondered about the value of MFA programs or wanted to learn what the MFA candidates learn? Here’s an opportunity to receive enrichment from a recent MFA candidate’s experience–Anne has offered loads of links to journals and writers you … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2012 | Tagged literary journals, MFA Programs, on writing | 1 Reply

In Conversation with Midge Raymond, Author of How to be an Everyday Writer: Tips and Prompts

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 13, 2012 by Sheila BenderJune 13, 2012

This week author and publisher Midge Raymond, whose newest book is How to be an Everyday Writer: Tips and Prompts, offers us some of her quickie prompts and answers questions about her career and writing. Sheila Midge, you have succeeded in publishing … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, WIR2012 | 6 Replies

Lust for Life

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 6, 2012 by Shanti BannwartOctober 19, 2022

The following is excerpted from Chapter 7 of

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Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged memoir, persona essay | 2 Replies

Interview with Memoirist Shanti Elke Bannwart

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 30, 2012 by Shanti BannwartMarch 24, 2013

None of us know the full impact of our stories, only that we are compelled to write them. Shanti Elke Bannwart, author of Dancing On One Foot: Growing Up In Nazi Germany, says, “Creating art is dangerous. It strips you … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, WIR2012 | 4 Replies

Bagging Africa’s Big Five

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 23, 2012 by Dorothy RossMay 30, 2012

Dorothy Ross’s winning personal essay takes her readers to Africa and a photo safari involving more action than the writer had bargained for. The details the author chooses put us right into the situation with directness and good humor, attributes … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged contest winning essay, personal essay | 1 Reply

Monday Morning at the Fracture Clinic

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 15, 2012 by Karin GoldbergMay 17, 2012

I admire Karin Goldberg’s recent Writing It Real contest winning description of an accident she suffered and her description of waiting for help. Though in shock, she did what she could to remain in control. In the days after the … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged contest winning essay, personal essay | 4 Replies

American Union

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 9, 2012 by Cecile LusbyMay 8, 2012

I admire Cecile Lusby’s first-place winning essay in our recent Writing It Real contest for its use of dialog to involve the reader in the author’s life-changing childhood experience and for the way the essay spans time, letting us know … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged contest winning essay, personal essay | 7 Replies

Go Ahead: Write About Your Parents, Again

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 2, 2012 by Tarn WilsonJune 11, 2014

Tarn Wilson writes, “Then, in my newest piece of writing, my mother returned like a zombie, dominating in all her horror and glory. She was stubborn and unyielding and I had no powers against her. After I’d wallowed around in … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged memoir, personal essay, writing advice | 11 Replies

The Letter Form: To Say It in Writing is to Hear It

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 25, 2012 by Sheila BenderApril 25, 2012

Recently, Samantha Smith, a middle school student from our town, placed as a Washington State champion in The Library of Congress’ national contest Letters About Literature. Each year, students are asked to write a letter to their favorite authors, living … Continue reading →

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Four Tricks that Keep a Writer Going

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 18, 2012 by Sheila BenderApril 18, 2012

Don’t Think. Write! Many authors who write about writing say, “Don’t think. Write!” I am one of them. But I also think it is fair to say to those who write, “Don’t think. Play!” If you allow yourself to play … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | Tagged trust your images, trust your writing, writers' block, writing inspiration | 2 Replies

Images Are What Pop for Readers, Not Telling: Exercises to Increase Your Expertise

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 11, 2012 by Sheila BenderApril 11, 2012

Most of us find it hard sometimes to believe that the specifics of what we see, taste, touch, smell and hear relate our inner perceptions and feelings (or those of our characters) without explanation. We may be writing with specifics … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2012 | Tagged Trusting Images, Writing Poetry, Writing Scenes | 1 Reply

Carrying the Raindrops – Journey to Writing Poetry

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 28, 2012 by Sheila BenderMay 8, 2012

Just after she’d learned to walk, my 15-month-old daughter and I spent a cloudy afternoon at Seattle’s Woodland Park Zoo.  Her favorite animals were the birds that wandered the grounds because she saw she could send them into flight by … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2012 | 6 Replies

The Non-Writing Writer

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 21, 2012 by Jean ErlerMarch 21, 2012

When Writing It Real member Jean Erler sent me the following essay as part of work she wanted to further develop, I knew that Writing It Real members would relate to what she was describing, a stance we writers take … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2012 | 8 Replies

Writing Does Make a Difference: A Conversation with Barbara Field On Expanding Women’s Voices Through Writing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 14, 2012 by Sheila BenderMarch 22, 2012

I was fortunate to meet Barbara Field when we both presented several years ago at the Whidbey Island Writers’ Conference in Washington State. When I heard from Barbara about recent developments in her writing life, I was eager to share … Continue reading →

Posted in WIR2012, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged Afghan women writers, women's voices, writing mentoring projects | 2 Replies

Remedies for Writer’s Envy

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 7, 2012 by Donna MiscoltaMarch 7, 2012

In her blog on her writer’s life,  the author of When the de la Cruz Family Danced shares her personal approach to dealing with what she calls “writer’s envy.”  Whether you have published or are seeking to publish, it is … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2012 | 2 Replies

There are Limits

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 29, 2012 by SusanBonoFebruary 29, 2012

There is a place for essays of every length in the world of creative nonfiction. Susan Bono, publisher and editor of  Tiny Lights: A Journal of Personal Narrative, offers us some thoughts on writing short personal essays as well as … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2012 | Tagged flash, personal essays, sudden nonfiction | Leave a reply

Experience at a Writers’ Conference on the State of Publishing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 22, 2012 by Donna MiscoltaFebruary 22, 2012

At every writer’s workshop and class I teach, participants ask about self-publishing and publishing with established presses. Here’s novelist and short fiction writer Donna Miscolta’s blog piece on being in the midst of learning what presses and agents are saying … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2012 | Tagged Publishing, Writers' Conferences | 5 Replies

Casting On

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 15, 2012 by Christi Killien GloverFebruary 15, 2012

Christi Killien and her husband, who she refers to as the Bearded One, have been developing what they call a farmlet on their property in Washington State, learning about sustainable living. A fiction writer who suspended story projects for many … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | 4 Replies

The Yoga of Writing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 8, 2012 by Brenda MillerFebruary 9, 2012

Personal essayist Brenda Miller is keeping a blog entitled Spa of the Mind, a phrase she borrowed from a chapter in William Powers’ book Hamlet’s Blackberry. By keeping this blog, Brenda is dedicating herself  to exploring “the ways we find respite for our … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | 6 Replies

How to Write (a book) — a wee rant

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 1, 2012 by Patti DighFebruary 27, 2012

Sometimes we need to be reminded that being a writer is about writing, first and foremost. As writers, we have to sit down and get our words on the page whether or not anyone has asked us to do so–and … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, WIR2012 | Tagged overcoming writer's block, writing advice | 18 Replies

Dreaming a Job, Defining as Essay

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 25, 2012 by Sheila BenderFebruary 19, 2012

On a writing retreat, I read through a manuscripts-wanted listing in an arts commission newsletter and noticed a magazine asking for short essays by women on work. I thought about my work roles and how I felt about them–mother, teacher, … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2012 | 1 Reply

Of Eucalyptus And Elm Trees And Fathers, Too

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 11, 2012 by Hildegard HingleJanuary 11, 2012

The guest judge for Writing It Real’s summer/fall 2011 writing contest was Susan Bono, who chose “Eucalyptus And Elm Trees And Fathers, Too” as our third place winner. Susan wrote about the work that it “flowed so naturally. The writer … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged contest winner, personal essay | 4 Replies

Making Peace

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 4, 2012 by Drew WilsonJanuary 11, 2012

Susan Bono, our guest judge for the Summer/Fall Writing It Real contest, chose the following essay as our second place winner. She writes of the essay: “I felt like the writer touched all the bases as she ran home. I … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2012 | Tagged contest winner, personal essay | 5 Replies

Must Reads for Essay Writers

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 23, 2002 by Sheila BenderOctober 3, 2012

“Learning to Drive” by Katha Pollitt in The New Yorker Magazine, July 22, 2002: Click for more information on the columnist  “Learning to Drive” is an engrossing and humble piece of writing from a leftist writer of renown, who refused … Continue reading →

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