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Category Archives: WIR2014

Philip Kenney on the Experience of Writing His Novel The Mercy Dialogues

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 4, 2024 by Philip KenneyDecember 5, 2024

Writing It Real contributor Philip Kenney has a new novel out, The Mercy Dialogues, and this month I “talked” via email with him about the premise of the novel, his reason for writing it, and what that experience was like. … Continue reading →

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WIR 2024 Anthology: On Advice That I Received and How It Turned Out

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 10, 2024 by Sheila BenderOctober 10, 2024

We are excited to announce the digital publication of Writing It Real members’ newest anthology! The essays and poems in it tackle the subject of listening to or refusing to listen to advice. We hope you enjoy reading the entries … Continue reading →

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Dialogue to Diffuse the Power of Critical Voices, For my students who say they can’t write dialog

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 30, 2024 by Sheila BenderMay 30, 2024

Years ago, I was flying Southwest Airlines from Seattle to Tucson where I was going to teach a weekend writing class. Southwest Airlines gave boarding passes at the gate, first come, first serve, and then loaded their planes in boarding … Continue reading →

Posted in 2024, Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged overcoming writer's block, writing dialgue, writing exercises | Leave a reply

Barbara Simmons on Publishing Her First Volume of Poetry:  Offertories: Exclamations and Disequilibriums

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 4, 2023 by Barbara SimmonsMay 4, 2023

The how, when, where, and why of the process – (the who is my “collected” writing selves) Early in 2021, a full year into the pandemic, I signed up to listen to Canadian writer and self-described writing “mid-wife,” Traci Skuce … Continue reading →

Posted in 2023, From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, WIR2014 | Tagged women's voices, writing life, Writing Poetry | 3 Replies

Thanksgiving at Our House by Writing It Real Member Suzy Beal

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 10, 2022 by Suzy BealNovember 10, 2022

“One, two, three, four, five, six, seven, hey, you guys, Mom made seven pies this time, two cherry, two apple and three pumpkin!  She made cinnamon rolls and bread, too.”  We had to wait to eat until Uncle Mac, Aunt … Continue reading →

Posted in 2022, From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, WIR2014 | Tagged memoir, narration, personal essay | 4 Replies

Back-to-School Memories by Carol Blatter

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 22, 2022 by Carol J BlatterSeptember 22, 2022

My Mom’s Good Taste by Carol Blatter Mom was very fussy about how I looked when I went to school. She had very good taste and she could go through a rack of dresses at almost the speed of a … Continue reading →

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Reflections on the Month of May by Robert Komishane and Linda Caplan

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 12, 2022 by Sheila BenderMay 12, 2022

I have the request out for people to write about the merry month of May and two Writing It Real members have shared work on the subject. First, we hear from Robert Komishane and enjoy his sense of humor and … Continue reading →

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David D. Horowitz Shares Today’s Impact of a John Dryden Poem from 1681

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 21, 2022 by Sheila BenderApril 27, 2022

Writing It Real member David D. Horowitz shares the impact on him of a 1681 poem by John Dryden. David operates an active poetry press, Rose Alley Press and writes poetry and essays. Visit his website to learn more about … Continue reading →

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On Creative Writing – Four Spotlights

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 3, 2020 by Sheila BenderDecember 17, 2020

On Creative Writing “The world — this shadow of the soul, or other me, lies wide around. Its attractions are the keys, which unlock my thoughts and make me acquainted with myself. I run eagerly into this resounding tumult…” –Ralph … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2014, WIR2020 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing inspiration | 1 Reply

PDF, E-Reader and Kindle Version Downloads Available for On Mishearing: Miseries, Mysteries and Misbehaviors

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 14, 2020 by Sheila BenderAugust 19, 2020

The Writing It Real August 2020 article is a compilation of writings by Writing It Real members for On Mishearing: Miseries, Mysteries, and Misbehaviors. EBook Formats We will soon have three different formats available. Which one you choose depends on … Continue reading →

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What Possessed Me to Host Poetry Readings at Northwind Arts Center in Port Townsend for 13 Years?  

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 2, 2020 by William MawhinneyApril 2, 2020

On February 6, Poet William Mawhinney presented his farewell as the 13-year host of the Port Townsend Washington Northwind Poetry Reading series. At the start of National Poetry Month, his message will inspire all of us to listen to poetry … Continue reading →

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Tell It Slant: Author Brenda Miller on Writing Creative Nonfiction and a Generous Excerpt from the Book

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 5, 2019 by Brenda MillerDecember 13, 2019

Introduction to an Excerpt from Tell it Slant (Available from Powell’s and Amazon as well as your favorite bookseller). By Brenda Miller In 2001, when Suzanne Paola and I began talking about writing a textbook for creative nonfiction, no such … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, WIR2014, WIR2019 | Tagged memoir, personal essay, Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises | 1 Reply

Excerpt From Molly Tinsley’s Novel Things Too Big to Name, Followed by a Q&A wth the Author

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 5, 2019 by Molly B. TinsleySeptember 5, 2019

This spring, thrilled to be reading a new novel by Molly Best Tinsley, both a teaching colleague and Writing It Real contributor, I was even more thrilled to have found a novel that I could not put down from the … Continue reading →

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We All Have Opinions: The Argument and Persuasion Essay

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 20, 2019 by Sheila BenderJune 19, 2019

Following the opinion pieces by Amy Hewes posted over the past two weeks, here is instruction on writing the argument and persuasion personal essay. It appeared in Writing It Real in 2014. I look forward to hearing from you in … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, WIR2014 | Tagged personal essay, Writing Craft Tools | 1 Reply

Flash! It’s a Great Form to Practice!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 7, 2019 by Sheila BenderFebruary 7, 2019

What is flash writing and why do authors like to write flash pieces? It’s quicker to write than a novel or memoir. It’s a challenge to see how much you can say with a short word limit, up 500 to … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2014, WIR2019 | Tagged flash, sudden nonfiction | Leave a reply

Taking Inspiration from Allen Ginsberg’s Poems to Have My Say

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 8, 2018 by Sheila BenderNovember 9, 2018

Tuesday, as I waited for election returns, I thought of Allen Ginsberg’s poem “Howl,” written in 1955, so full of despair at what he had seen around him. I wondered what I would howl when I found out whether or … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Revisions - Sample Successes, The Working Writer, WIR2014, WIR2018 | Tagged writing exercises, writing inspiration, Writing Poetry | 2 Replies

Prose Poetry in a Smoky Time

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 23, 2018 by Sheila BenderAugust 24, 2018

I was sitting at my dining table this morning with a cup of coffee looking out over the still smoky and haze-ridden sky we had experienced on the Olympic Peninsula for a week because of fires in Eastern Washington and … Continue reading →

Posted in Reading for Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2014, WIR2018 | Tagged Trusting Images, writing inspiration, Writing Poetry | 1 Reply

January 2018 Favorite Online Sites for Reading and Publishing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 18, 2018 by Sheila BenderJanuary 18, 2018

As writers. we should always be on the lookout for interesting and helpful resources online as well as places to publish our own work. I share a lot of resources on Writing It Real’s facebook page and on Pinterest at The … Continue reading →

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23 Prompts for Revising

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 25, 2016 by Sheila BenderAugust 25, 2016

Author Joyce Carol Oates says, “The pleasure is the rewriting.” Author John Irving says, “More than a half, maybe as much as two-thirds of my life as a writer is rewriting. I wouldn’t say I have a talent that’s special. … Continue reading →

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Making Books from Lists Part II: Adam Diament’s Kosher Patents

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 11, 2016 by Sheila BenderAugust 11, 2016

Adam L. Diament, the author of Kosher Patents: 101 Ingenious Inventions to Help Jews be Jewish, is a practicing patent attorney in Beverly Hills, California. He earned a B.A. in Religious Studies with an Emphasis in Judaism from the University … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, The Working Writer, WIR2014, WIR2016 | Tagged Informational Writing | 1 Reply

Costume Concepts Beginning With The Letter "T"

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 28, 2015 by Abigail ThomasJune 2, 2015

Costume Concepts Beginning With The Letter “T” Earlier than making your determination and even begin searching for a wig it is strongly recommended that you simply first think about the use and function you desire to it to serve in … Continue reading →

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Letter to My Son

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 31, 2014 by Sheila BenderDecember 31, 2014

Writing It Real members and students know my love of the epistolary (letter) form in literature and the many examples of it I offer as writing models. During the holiday season, a time of letters from those near and far, … Continue reading →

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20 Dialog Building Prompts

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 17, 2014 by Sheila BenderDecember 17, 2014

Dialog moves a narrative along in fiction, personal essay, memoir and poetry, too. Playing with ways to experiment with dialog will help you build your dexterity with this aspect of the writing craft. And playing with the prompts might have you … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing dialog, writing exercises, Writing Fiction | 2 Replies

20 Character Building Exercises

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 10, 2014 by Sheila BenderDecember 10, 2014

When we write fiction, we need to get inside our characters’ beings. When we write memoir, we need to learn more about our own character as well as the character of people who have influenced our experience. But sometimes we need … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises, Writing Fiction | 2 Replies

Keeping a Writer’s Journal? 21 Prompts to Help You

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 3, 2014 by Sheila BenderDecember 3, 2014

Keeping a notebook of short descriptions, thoughts, overheard conversations, quotes and even complaints and worries will keep us in the writing mode, even when our days are filled with other activities and concerns. I have been reading a wise and inspiring … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged journaling, literary journals, writing exercises | 3 Replies

Why Write? My Answers in an Intervew with Mark Matousek

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 26, 2014 by Sheila BenderNovember 26, 2014

Writing is, to me, a friend with extraordinary benefits. This Thanksgiving, I offer a link to an interview for which I am grateful. Mark Matousek chose to interview me on writing as a healing activity. He asked me the kind of questions … Continue reading →

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Play with 20 Scene Building Prompts

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 19, 2014 by Sheila BenderNovember 19, 2014

Last week, I wrote about doing a scene-writing exercise short story writer and teacher, Ron Carlson, invented. This week, I am posting 20 ideas I’ve put together for practice writing scenes that will help you develop dexterity in presenting your … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises, Writing Scenes | 4 Replies

The Physicality of Writing Scenes and Characters

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 12, 2014 by Sheila BenderNovember 16, 2014

As writers, we are aware of the dictum “Show, don’t tell,” but sometimes what we think of as showing turns out to be only another way of telling and avoiding showing. On this subject, I often quote fiction writer Ron … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Trusting Images, Writing Craft Tools, writing exercises, Writing Scenes | 2 Replies

Grandma’s Fridge

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 5, 2014 by Jennifer WagleyNovember 6, 2014

Years ago, Jennifer Wagley entered a vivid, funny account of her perceptions of her grandmother’s attitudes toward food — buying, keeping, and serving it. It turns out she did this in 12 paragraphs, and as you know, we are celebrating our 12 year … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2014 | Tagged contest winner, personal essay | 2 Replies

Writing the Interruptions

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 29, 2014 by Sheila BenderOctober 5, 2023

In her book, Marry Your Muse, Jan Philips writes about a day at a mountain cabin when she and her partner were spending time writing. Jan’s cousins, ages 10 and 12, showed up at the door. When Jan told the … Continue reading →

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In Conversation with Kathryn Trueblood

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 28, 2014 by Kathryn TruebloodOctober 5, 2023

Sheila talks with feminist fiction writer Kathryn Trueblood about her work and the publishing world.

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The Honor of Writing a Foreword to an Anthology

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 15, 2014 by Sheila BenderOctober 15, 2014

The following is the 2013 foreword I was honored to write for the anthology Times They Were A’Changing: Women Remember the 60s and 70s, edited by Linda Joy Myers, Amber Lea Starfire and Kate Farrell. Paying tribute to the vibrant decades during … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, WIR2014, Writers Building a Community of Readers, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged personal essay, women's voices | 3 Replies

Beach House: How do writers get the conscious mind to meld with the unconscious?

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 8, 2014 by Christi Killien GloverOctober 8, 2014

What follows is Chapter Five from the forthcoming updated edition of Writing In A New Convertible with the Top Down: A Unique Guide for Writers. In 1992, Christi Killien Glover and I began an exchange of letters to explore and … Continue reading →

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Last Words, Glenn Fleishman’s Essay on Loss

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 1, 2014 by Glenn FleishmanOctober 1, 2014

Glenn Fleishman’s expertly executed and moving personal essay about the his mother’s death and the last time he saw her will resonate with any of us who are striving to write the details of loss and our lives at the … Continue reading →

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How a Personal Essay Becomes Fully Manifest

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 24, 2014 by Betty ShaferSeptember 25, 2014

Betty Shafer asked me to read an essay about losing her adult son. It had been a year since she began the essay following an emotional author reading I gave at the Colorado Mountain Writer’s Conference she attended in June … Continue reading →

Posted in Revisions - Sample Successes, WIR2014 | Tagged personal essay, revising writing, trust your writing | 1 Reply

A Lesson About the Value of Writing from Henrik Ibsen’s Play Peer Gynt

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 17, 2014 by Sheila BenderSeptember 21, 2014

Flying home from Scandinavia in late August, a little uncomfortable in the cramped airline seat, I was remembering stretching my legs on a trip I’d made to Norway years before.

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Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2014 | Tagged overcoming writer's block, reading for writing, trust your writing, writing memoir | 9 Replies

All Done Not Writing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 10, 2014 by Sheila BenderSeptember 10, 2014

This week’s article is a reprint of one that first appeared in 2003. Time flies; when we look back, the lessons we have learned seem to shine brighter. My grandson Toby turned 17 months old this October 1.  He has been … Continue reading →

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On Writing Personal Essays: Rest Assured, It’s More Than “Only” the Personal

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 3, 2014 by Sheila BenderSeptember 3, 2014

As personal essayists, we sometimes worry whether people will be interested in what we have to say since our material is “just” personal experience. That worry exists alongside its cousins “Who am I to write about this or to tell my family’s secrets?” and “What if … Continue reading →

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You Could Be Writing, Not Waiting to Write: Four Very Portable Short Forms

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 21, 2014 by Sheila BenderAugust 21, 2014

Before appointments, when a meeting hasn’t started, when a bus hasn’t come, when a friend is late, when you have finished something and still have time before the next thing in your day, when you arrive early to work — … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged Trusting Images, writing advice, Writing Poetry | 2 Replies

It Wraps Back on Itself: Writing the Roundel

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 13, 2014 by Sheila BenderAugust 13, 2014

This, my second week in Denmark visiting my daughter and her family, I continued with my idea of writing more poetry in form. I flipped through the book my younger grandson, who had used it in third grade, had given … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, WIR2014 | Tagged writing exercises, Writing Poetry | 3 Replies

Writing Dispatch from Denmark: Northern Jutland Pantoum

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on August 5, 2014 by Sheila BenderAugust 6, 2014

I am in Denmark for the month of August visiting my daughter and her family. She and her husband are here working, and the international school my grandsons attended is out for the summer. My job is being nanny, but it’s more … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2014 | Tagged Writing Craft Tools, Writing Poetry | 2 Replies

An Ode to the Author of Blue Willow

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 23, 2014 by Sheila BenderJuly 23, 2014

I was reading a magazine article recently in which authors wrote about pivotal books they’ve read. What book would I name, I wondered. Immediately, I saw myself at my fourth grade desk in the 1950’s at Franklin Elementary School in … Continue reading →

Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2014, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged on writing, reading for writing, women's voices, writing inspiration | 9 Replies

My Marital Status

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 17, 2014 by James KullanderJuly 17, 2014

After reading that I’d mentioned an interview he did with Marion Woodman in a Writing It Real article, James Kullander contacted me. After reading the whole article, he offered permission to share another essay originally published in the December 2007 issue of The … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Literary Gallery, WIR2014 | Tagged personal essay | 7 Replies

The Interview: A Way to Write More Complex Characters in Your Memoir

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 6, 2014 by Andrea ClausenJuly 9, 2014

Often when I try to write about my mother the same details surface. In my childhood memories she is always busy either working or participating on different committees; when she is home she is tired and does not like to … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged memoir, writing advice, Writing Craft Tools | Leave a reply

Writing Prompts To Anchor Summer

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 2, 2014 by Sheila BenderJuly 2, 2014

Originally published in in the summer of 2005, this article is filled with writing exercises inspired by the summer holidays. I think they will come in handy again to help you keep on writing, even though summer is loaded with traditional holiday social demands … Continue reading →

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Submissions Wanted – Venues for Publishing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on July 1, 2014 by Sheila BenderFebruary 5, 2017

Here’s an ongoing list of places seeking submissions. Check back frequently for more listings and please add in any venues of which you are aware. We all appreciate learning of opportunities for sending our work out for consideration.

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Interview with Memoirist Tarn Wilson, Part III: Writing About Others and The Journey to Publication

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 25, 2014 by Andrea ClausenJune 25, 2014

Last week we posted Part II of my interview with Tarn Wilson about her memoir The Slow Farm. We talked about different ways of bringing back memories and how to write from a child’s viewpoint as an adult. This week, … Continue reading →

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Interview With Memoirist Tarn Wilson, Part II: The Art of Remembering

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 18, 2014 by Andrea ClausenJune 18, 2014

Last week we posted the first part of my interview with Tarn Wilson about her memoir The Slow Farm. Tarn and I talked about how she used artifacts to reconstruct the past and how she structured her book. This week … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged memoir, writing advice, writing memoir | 3 Replies

Interview with Memoirist Tarn Wilson, Part I: Reconstructing the Past

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 11, 2014 by Andrea ClausenJune 11, 2014

I am a person who saves things, from the obviously important letter my father wrote me right before he passed away to the “might need it someday” notes from middle school. I have shoeboxes of unorganized photographs, rocks and shells … Continue reading →

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Interview with Bonnie Rough on Her Book Carrier: Untangling the Danger in My DNA

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on June 4, 2014 by Andrea ClausenJune 4, 2014

Bonnie Rough’s memoir, Carrier, which won the 2011 Minnesota Book Award, includes extensive research via family stories, interviews, pictures, legal records, letters, and more, but it is her compassionate portrayal of her grandfather, Earl, who passed away soon after her … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged family, illness, memoir, researching, women's voices | 3 Replies

Writing Your Way in the Back Door: The Painting as Entry

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 28, 2014 by Christine HempMay 28, 2014

Christine Hemp offers us her thinking about how we may find our prose and poetry’s true subjects followed by a writing exercise for practice and two sample poems. [This article and exercise were originally published in Now Write! Nonfiction: Memoir, Journalism and Creative … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, WIR2014 | Tagged Trusting Images, writing advice, writing exercises, Writing Poetry | 1 Reply

Interview with Memoirist Sue William Silverman

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 21, 2014 by Sue William SilvermanMay 23, 2014

I am pleased to publish this interview with award winning memoirist Sue William Silverman about the writing of her newest memoir and her advice to those of us who write from personal experience. The Pat Boone Fan Club: My Life … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged memoir, Publishing, trust your writing, Trusting Images, women's voices, writing advice, writing memoir | 14 Replies

Digesting World News

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 14, 2014 by Sheila BenderMay 14, 2014

This essay originally appeared in Writing It Real August 2006. The question I was exploring is still one many of us ask when we consider the world’s situation: Where is our writing in all this? How should it matter? Every time … Continue reading →

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Need to Breathe New Life into the Journal Keeping Habit? Hire the Journal Keeper Within

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 7, 2014 by Sheila BenderMay 7, 2014

It’s spring — we’ll be getting busy with outdoor chores, vacations and other summer activities before long. Less time for writing, you might be thinking. But an effective way to keep up your writing is to commit to keeping a … Continue reading →

Posted in The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged on writing, overcoming writer's block, writing advice | 3 Replies

How To Retailer A Promenade Gown

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on May 3, 2014 by Abigail ThomasMay 11, 2015

How To Retailer A Promenade Gown Wedding Day is a really special occasion, especially for the Bride as at the present time symbolizes the start of her new journey. Then you have the modest prom gown in Tony Bowls promenade … Continue reading →

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Celebrating and Learning from Poets — Final Four!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 29, 2014 by Sheila BenderMay 1, 2014

As April and National Poetry Month come to an end, we finish our series of poets on their poems. Stan Rubin, Michael Spence, Nicole Persun and Nancy Levinson have each offered us a poem along with their thoughts about writing … Continue reading →

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Human Hair Wigs Versus Artificial Hair Wigs

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 27, 2014 by Abigail ThomasMay 23, 2015

Human Hair Wigs Versus Artificial Hair Wigs Finding the right hairpieces or wigs can be a attempting and troublesome expertise for a lot of black ladies. If you are planning to get one for yourself, you have to determine first … Continue reading →

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Celebrating and Learning from Poets — Another Batch of Three

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 23, 2014 by Sheila BenderApril 29, 2014

This week I am posting poems by three more poets whose work I have been following. Each has offered words about the creation of the particular poem included. And, as before, you’ll find writing ideas from me based on each … Continue reading →

Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, WIR2014 | Tagged reading for writing, writing advice, Writing Poetry | 3 Replies

Celebrating and Learning from Three More Wonderful Poets

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 16, 2014 by Sheila BenderApril 16, 2014

We present three poets, offering one of their poems along with words about its creation. My writing ideas are each based on one of the poems and are useful whether you are writing poetry or prose.

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Posted in From Our Contributors, Instructional Exercises, Reading for Writing, WIR2014 | Tagged trust your images, writing inspiration, Writing Poetry | 3 Replies

Stylish Promenade Clothes

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 16, 2014 by Abigail ThomasApril 27, 2015

How To Select Strapless Prom Dress And Accessories Ladies are very particular how they look each time they go out or go to somebody. It is time for you to start shopping on your Newest put on not expensive clothes … Continue reading →

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Distinctive Prom Costume

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 16, 2014 by Abigail ThomasMay 2, 2015

Distinctive Prom Costume Evenings at sea are all the time an occasion to look ahead to. The gown code transforms the environment on board so that every evening is completely different. Formal wears will suit for the every day use … Continue reading →

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Celebrating and Learning from Three Wonderful Poets

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 9, 2014 by Sheila BenderApril 9, 2014

It’s National Poetry Month and I am celebrating poets I know whose work I have been following both in their books and by attending readings in my town and surrounding areas. Each of the next weeks, I will publish a … Continue reading →

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Celebrate National Poetry Month by Writing Poems! Yes, Even If You Think You Can’t!

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 2, 2014 by Sheila BenderApril 3, 2014

National Poetry Month started yesterday. This week’s article is an oldie but goodie, originally published in 2007 and updated for 2014. In Port Townsend, the daffodils have been up several weeks. As usual out here, it looks like we’ll get … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged writing advice, writing exercises, Writing Poetry | 3 Replies

Are You Worrying About What’s Happened to Your Creativity?

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 26, 2014 by Sheila BenderMarch 26, 2014

Our creativity is an eternal light. It burns even when we are not paying attention to it. It doesn’t need relighting so much as finding where it lights our path.

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On the Courage to Create

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 19, 2014 by Sheila BenderMarch 26, 2014

Creativity in one’s thinking and in one’s art is unsettling, both to the artist and to audiences. The courage to create must be born again and again.

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Where Does Creativity Start?

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 12, 2014 by Sheila BenderApril 24, 2014

You may think that being creative requires that you have an idea for a finished product. But an important attribute of creativity is that it produces what it will, not necessarily what you were thinking it ought to. You may … Continue reading →

Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2014 | Tagged overcoming writer's block, Trusting Images, writing advice, writing inspiration | 5 Replies

The Strangest of Theatres: A Poet Writes Across Borders

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on March 5, 2014 by Susan RichMarch 18, 2014

Three accomplished writers have as editors acquired a collection of essays in The Strangest of Theatres: Poets Writing Across Borders in which poets explore the way their journeys to foreign lands helped them add to literature’s great conversation. Susan Rich, … Continue reading →

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Poet Beth Spencer’s Words Regarding Writing “The Shipwreck Coast”

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on February 26, 2014 by Beth SpencerMarch 2, 2014

Last week, we posted Australian Writing It Real member Beth Spencer’s winning narrative poem “The Shipwreck Coast.” This week we are posting an essay she has written for Writing It Real members about what spurred her on in writing this … Continue reading →

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Male Hair Loss

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 29, 2014 by Abigail ThomasMay 13, 2015

Male Hair Loss Wigs and different hairpieces have been used for hundreds of years to realize the look that men and women most need. Financial synthetic lace entrance wigs, human hair lace wigs, it nonetheless is certainly not so putting … Continue reading →

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On Meeting the Lost Boys of Sudan, Personal Writing at the Intersection of History

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 8, 2014 by Betty ShaferJanuary 10, 2014

Writing It Real member Betty Shafer met five of the Lost Boys of the Sudan during a time that she was mourning personal losses and considering a major life change. Entwining their story of tragedy and survival during an historic … Continue reading →

Posted in Literary Gallery, Reading for Writing, WIR2013, WIR2014, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged personal essay | 7 Replies

Where Have You Published Lately?

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 1, 2014 by Sheila BenderFebruary 5, 2017

Go on! Brag a little or a lot. Include your blog url, literary journals, anthologies, books, plays produced–wherever we can find your writing. By learning where one another publishes as well as reading your work, we learn. Let us help … Continue reading →

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Member-to-Member

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 1, 2014 by Sheila BenderFebruary 5, 2017

Do you have a writing question your peers can answer? Do you have answers your peers might find useful? Books you are reading to tell us about, references and activities for writers? Interact here!

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Becoming a Haiku Poet

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on April 13, 2006 by Michael WelchMarch 26, 2014

Last week, you read Michael Welch’s instruction on writing haiku. This week you’ll learn more about haiku and publishing from a transcript of my email interview with him. It includes the treat of some of Michael’s poems at the end … Continue reading →

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