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Yearly Archives: 2002

Why Poetry? A Novelist Reflects

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 26, 2002 by Joanne RocklinOctober 17, 2011

This article originally appeared in the 1999 issue of The Sampler, the newsletter of the Southern California Children’s Literature Council (formerly the Southern California Council on Literature for Children and Young People (SCCLCYP). When I was seven years old, I wrote a poem to console my father after the defeat of his favorite hockey team, … Continue reading →

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Book Marks

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 19, 2002 by Rebecca McClanahanOctober 17, 2011

Recently I interviewed poet and essayist Rebecca McClanahan for a book on essay writing that I am finishing for Writer’s Digest Books.  When I told her that I had reviewed her essay “Book Marks,” which I’d found in Best American Essays 2001 for Writing It Real subscribers, she offered to allow me to reprint the … Continue reading →

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Correspondence with Fiction Writer Janice Eidus

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 12, 2002 by Janice EidusOctober 17, 2011

This fall I corresponded with novelist and short fiction writer Janice Eidus to investigate how fiction writers use personal experience in their writing.  I have admired Eidus’ fiction and her teaching for many years now and in 1997, I invited her to contribute to my book, The Writer’s Journal: 40 Writers and Their Journals, published … Continue reading →

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Suzan Huney’s “Choice Bits”

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 5, 2002 by Suzan HuneyNovember 27, 2013

At a writing conference workshop on developing the personal essay, Suzan Huney read the draft of an essay spawned by thumbing through her address book.  Her musings on the people she found in her book led to memories of her grandmother’s address book and then to consulting it directly. As she continued her drafting process, … Continue reading →

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Using Quotes to Spur Your Writing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 21, 2002 by Sheila BenderOctober 18, 2011

I like to keep quotes in an 8 by 5 inch blue-cloth covered three-ring binder. I write down or tear out quotes that strike my fancy.  They come from books and magazines, affirmations I wish to repeat to myself, fortunes from cookies, remarks during a lecture, writings in a program, overheard dialog or something a … Continue reading →

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More Than Your English Teacher Ever Told You – Part II

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 14, 2002 by Sheila BenderOctober 29, 2011

I’ve been editing essays this fall for professionals who are applying to graduate school programs. As always, I am pointing out passive voice constructions and instructing the applicants on how to make them active constructions, and I’m also pointing out dangling modifiers and suggesting alternative wording. I know from looking at my own drafts and … Continue reading →

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Bringing Dear Mom: Remembering Our Mothers Into the World

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on November 7, 2002 by Patricia HasslerOctober 16, 2024

When her mother’s Parkinson’s had progressed, Patricia Hassler quit her job and became her mother’s caretaker.  Realizing she needed a creative outlet, she answered an ad in a local paper for a columnist to write about a nearby suburb where her husband was teaching. The newspaper editor also wanted features about what was going on … Continue reading →

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More Must Reads for Inspiration

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 31, 2002 by Sheila BenderOctober 18, 2011

I’d like to examine how three essays from The Best American Essays 2001 satisfy me as a reader and inspire me as a writer.  I offer my thoughts and some writing ideas based on the essays in the hope that when you read them and the 23 others in the collection, you will not only … Continue reading →

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Personal Flights Into Cyberspace

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 24, 2002 by Bob YehlingOctober 18, 2011

I am delighted to offer readers of Writing It Real this personal essay by writer, editor, and publicist Bob Yehling. In his essay, we get a glimpse of a passionate writer at work, writing from life experience, appreciating the work of others who do so, and looking for places to publish his essays on line.  … Continue reading →

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Finished Essay: “When Love is All You Have”

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 10, 2002 by Mary Ann PayneOctober 18, 2011

The only thing that distinguished this particular examining room from dozens like it was the huge wall chart of hearts in all manner of disease and disarray.  The rest of the room was familiar and predictable – high narrow table sitting cattycorner, white enamel cabinets with boxes of disposable gloves and canisters of gauze in … Continue reading →

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Learning Words by Heart

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on October 3, 2002 by Sheila BenderOctober 18, 2011

A few years ago, I invented a way of coming to writing during times when I felt overwhelmed by my need to write, yet stuck in my ability to get anything of value on the page.  The exercise I invented ultimately helped me to create vignettes, essays, and poems from life experience when I had … Continue reading →

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Resources for Poetry – A Feast for the Soul

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 25, 2002 by Sheila BenderOctober 18, 2011

Poetry is a kind of food, shelter, and clothing for which I am thankful.  It nourishes my being, builds a dwelling for my ecstasy and my awe, and keeps me warm when I grieve.  Books on my shelves and on the shelves of libraries and booksellers, poetry sites on the Internet, movies about poetry and … Continue reading →

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Must Reads for Essay Writers

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on September 23, 2002 by Sheila BenderOctober 3, 2012

“Learning to Drive” by Katha Pollitt in The New Yorker Magazine, July 22, 2002: Click for more information on the columnist  “Learning to Drive” is an engrossing and humble piece of writing from a leftist writer of renown, who refused to shy away from using very personal material. Her essay narrates her driving lessons with … Continue reading →

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