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Monthly Archives: December 2013

New Year’s Thoughts and Advice From My Correspondence With My iPad Mini

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 31, 2013 by Sheila BenderFebruary 18, 2014

December 31, 2013 Dear Mini, Today marks our six-month anniversary of being together!  Six months! And you, my love, remain ever fresh and surprising, ever so original! We haven’t parted for even a day since that July afternoon when I gave in to the gleam in your eye and brought you home. I want to … Continue reading →

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Posted in Instructional Exercises, Literary Gallery, WIR2013 | Tagged persona essay, personal essay, writing exercises

Create the Mother Lode: Exercises for Short Writing That Leads to More Writing

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 18, 2013 by Sheila BenderDecember 18, 2013

[This excerpt appear in slightly different form in the anthology Women Writing On Family: Tips on Writing, Teaching and Publishing, edited by Carol Smallwood and Suzann Holland.] Even when life seems too busy to “really” write, you can work on gathering and storing images, details, and reflections about family life, personal experiences and memories. The brief … Continue reading →

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Posted in WIR2013 | Tagged journaling, overcoming writer's block, personal essay, sudden nonfiction, trust your writing, writing exercises

Our Writing Minds Depend on This

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 11, 2013 by Sheila BenderDecember 11, 2013

Writing depends on our willingness to observe closely and our ability to allow ourselves to engage emotionally with what we are observing. So often, though, we don’t remember to take time to look around rather than look only at our screens because of the mad crush of email, texts, instant messages, facebook posts, tweets, and … Continue reading →

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Posted in Instructional Exercises, Sheila Bender On Writing, The Working Writer, WIR2013 | Tagged on writing, overcoming writer's block, Trusting Images, writing advice, writing exercises, writing inspiration

That Crazy Little Thing, a Novel that Tackles What’s Big for a Writer and Her Characters

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on December 4, 2013 by Kate M. BracyDecember 4, 2013

That Crazy Little Thing a debut novel by Kate Bracy has garnered wonderful reviews from readers and critics because of the author’s writing, the way she has developed her characters and how they explore issues of love — between friends, parents and their children, and adults looking for partners who understand them. Following Kate’s answers … Continue reading →

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Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2013 | Tagged writing advice, Writing Fiction, writing inspiration

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