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Monthly Archives: January 2014

On Writing From Life

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 29, 2014 by Molly B. TinsleyJanuary 29, 2014

Our writing contest guest judge, Molly Tinsley, is now reading and making her selections of three contest winners in the recent Writing It Real contest. While we are waiting for the results, we are reprinting her article about writing memoir. It appeared orignally in the November 2013 issue of Author magazine.  Molly’s words on writing from … Continue reading →

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Posted in From Our Contributors, The Working Writer, WIR2013 | Tagged memoir, writing advice, writing memoir

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Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 29, 2014 by Abigail ThomasMay 13, 2015

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What I Was Thinking

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 22, 2014 by Sheila BenderJanuary 22, 2014

This article first ran January 24, 2008, after a visit from my grandsons. Their visit over this past Martin Luther King three-day weekend had me thinking again about the way watching children’s reactions to our adult judgments and commands can help us become kinder to our writing and our writing selves, so we can better … Continue reading →

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Posted in Sheila Bender On Writing, WIR2013 | Tagged memoir, on writing, overcoming writer's block, personal essay, writing inspiration

People Who Write — Sandra Hurtes’ Story of Blog to Book

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 15, 2014 by Sandra HurtesSeptember 27, 2022

Sandra Hurtes created a blog, felt she had a book there, and engaged in the process of selecting and shaping the entries and adding to the material to create a book-length account of herself as writer.  The result is the very recently published The Ambivalent Memoirist: Obesessions, Digressions, Epiphanies, which has already garnered praise and … Continue reading →

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Posted in From Our Contributors, Reading for Writing, WIR2013 | Tagged personal essay, Publishing, trust your writing, writing life, writing memoir

On Meeting the Lost Boys of Sudan, Personal Writing at the Intersection of History

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 8, 2014 by Betty ShaferJanuary 10, 2014

Writing It Real member Betty Shafer met five of the Lost Boys of the Sudan during a time that she was mourning personal losses and considering a major life change. Entwining their story of tragedy and survival during an historic upheaval with reflections on events in her own life, Betty arrives at clarity, strength, and … Continue reading →

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Posted in Literary Gallery, Reading for Writing, WIR2013, WIR2014, Writing Makes a Difference | Tagged personal essay

Where Have You Published Lately?

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 1, 2014 by Sheila BenderFebruary 5, 2017

Go on! Brag a little or a lot. Include your blog url, literary journals, anthologies, books, plays produced–wherever we can find your writing. By learning where one another publishes as well as reading your work, we learn. Let us help you build an audience! 

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Posted in Community Discussion, WIR2014

Member-to-Member

Sheila Bender's Writing It Real Posted on January 1, 2014 by Sheila BenderFebruary 5, 2017

Do you have a writing question your peers can answer? Do you have answers your peers might find useful? Books you are reading to tell us about, references and activities for writers? Interact here!

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Posted in Community Discussion, WIR2014

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